Yesterday I poked fun at the way the church world responds to all those dirty words. I wanted to take a more serious look at it today.
I work with a woman who has very recently decided to follow Jesus. She attempts to start each morning with a prayer when she wakes up. One day at lunch this woman realized she forgot to pray that morning. In her displeasure with herself she said, “Shit, I forgot to pray this morning.”
This woman was ridiculed about this. Several people used this to make fun of and marginalize her faith over it. She didn’t do anything wrong. It is merely a word. She, however, began to feel bad over it. She felt she had let down God in some way.
Here’s the part of this that bothers me the most. None of the “non-believers” making fun of her actually thought she did anything wrong. They know you won’t find anything in the Bible that teaches against using such words. Their taunts came from the fact that they realize that the vast majority of Christians believe cussing is wrong. So, they labeled her as just another hypocrite for what they viewed as breaking one of her own rules.
Don’t we have enough problems with our image without making sins out of things that aren’t really sins?
May 23rd, 2008 - 11:46 am
Mark you said: “Don’t we have enough problems with our image without making sins out of things that aren’t really sins?”
You are right on target! I will try to write a little in the near future about this whole concept of sin—where we get it right and where we get it wrong. Suffice it for now to say that “guilting” people about certain individual sins is about as far from the way of Jesus as possible. One of his biggest problems with the Pharisees in his day was that they loved to “load people down with burdens.” [See Luke 11:46.] As a counselor I know that for too many people are carrying around a load of guilt. I want to say to people, as did Jesus, “Your sins are forgiven!” Guilt is the main thing from which Jesus frees us!
May 23rd, 2008 - 2:17 pm
Again, you are thinking along the same lines of me. I was kinda leading up to a blog entry about guilt and freedom. I look forward to reading yours too.